I found
very good text by David Littell . So I hope you will enjoy it too.
Maybe some
of you will understand little more what coach are saying now.
Since
retiring from competitive fencing I have turned my fencing energies toward
coaching. I expected that this experience would require teaching fencing
skills, strategy, and motivation. But I had not anticipated that it would be
hard for students to understand what it took to be good at a sport. I had been
an athlete for so long that this stuff was just part of me. Over the years I
have been struggling to find the words to explain to my students what I think
learning fencing, and for that matter, any sport is all about. Here it is.
I hope
that you love fencing. Please, please, please, do it because you enjoy it.
There are so many sports and other activities out there to pursue. Do yourself,
your coaches and your families a favor, pick activities that your really love.
I’ve never met a parent that doesn’t want that for their children. Also, I’ve
never felt bad losing a student to another passion. I only feel bad losing a
student to fear, lethargy or lack of commitment to anything. In addition, if
you look around almost all the greatest athletes are the ones who simply love
playing their sports.
I
expect that you will try as hard as you can to master the skills. This is often the hardest. Although it seems simple, it’s really a
complex idea. It requires that you appreciate several key concepts of sport.
One is " it is not as easy as it looks". Each and every one of us is
guilty of this one. Somehow, in the human experience, we think if you can do it,
I can. The second concept is "mastery is in the details." Getting
good is as simple as learning to master the skills. However, no matter how many
times I say this most students don’t practice their lunges, extensions,
disengages, footwork and other fencing skills. I wish I could come up with
other ways to say it, but the bottom line is learning requires more practice
then you can imagine.
Develop
an appreciation for how hard it is to master your sport. Mastery is difficult. In fencing you have to master a million skills,
put them together in some orderly fashion, develop strategies for different
opponents, and learn to do this under pressure. Then you have to start over at
every new level of competition. Getting good is hard. Truly knowing this also
means that when you do succeed you will enjoy it more. If you ever listen to
athletes on TV you notice that the best athletes have a sense of humility about
competition. They know that every time they go out there anything can happen.
This respect for competition comes usually after losing and getting up and
trying again. And when these athletes succeed, you can sense the appreciation
even the awe of their performance. On the other hand are those athletes who get
frustrated and quit. In my estimation, many of these never appreciated how hard
it is to get good. They act defeated and as if they have a lack of
self-confidence. They say things like, "I should be farther then I
am", and "I can’t believe how bad I am". When I hear this I
don’t hear a lack of confidence, I hear overconfidence. In most cases the
reality is your right where you should be!
Clearly
decide where fencing fits in your life and go for it. This means figure out how important this is to you now, balancing your
other interests and responsibilities. This requires looking at the time
available, your level of interest and your goals. I primarily see the function
of goals as helping you determine how much work your going to do. Once this is
done, now get down to work! Establishing priorities helps you get what you want
and also helps you to enjoy the journey.
Become
coachable. This is easy for some and almost impossible for
others. It requires the belief that you need something, that the other person
can offer it, and a willingness to diligently try to master what they have to
offer. It seems to me that most fall down in the first category. For many
different reasons people have trouble opening themselves up to advice. Be it
fear, embarrassment, bad experiences in other learning environments (like school)
or overconfidence, opening up to advice and new ideas is hard. Also, know that
if you’re going to be great, you have to learn to become coachable. At the same
time, I don’t think being coachable means being blindly following the leader.
You have to learn to be discriminating. At times, I am certain that you will
have to reject some advice- and it might not feel easy to do.
Learn
to make an honest and rigorous self-evaluation. This
means giving full weight to both the positive and the negative aspects of your
game, your training program, and your competitive demeanor. If you don’t
appreciate your strengths, two things might happen. One, you’ll get depressed
and discouraged. And two, even more dangerous, you might throw away what you do
best. Another trap here is that sometimes what seems to be a weakness is really
a strength. For example, if your best move is your counterattack- it may
not mean that it’s time to start over. It may only mean that you need to figure
out a better way to set up your counterattack. On the other hand, it’s also
important to be able to look at your weaknesses openly and honestly. If you
don’t you’re doomed. Saying after every loss "I choked" isn’t going
to get you anywhere.
Learn
to reach out for what you need . Think big. Many
people have a closed view of where to get help. The coach, the coach the coach.
You, not the coach is at the center of your fencing. This is your activity and
the coach as well as the rest of the world is full of tools that will help.
Please try and stay and touch with the fact that fencing is yours and where you
go with it is up to you. Other life. Part of thinking big, means knowing
that what is going on in your whole life can impact on your fencing. For me,
those people in my life that support and value me for things other then fencing- have
been crucial to my athletic success. They helped to keep fencing in balance and
to never seem to important. Also, in many cases, the stuff that keeps us from
getting good at fencing has to do with problems outside the sport. When I went
to the Olympics I met many athletes, who were not problem free, but had
overcome personal problems in order to get there. Keep your ears open.
If you listened carefully, everything that you need to know to become an
Olympic athlete was said on television by the athletes during the recent
Atlanta Olympic Games. Be creative. When you read biographies of
athletes, you see that each had a unique road to the top. Many times they chose
unusual and creative paths based on their own personalities and experiences.
I
expect that you will practice good sportspersonship This
is not easy, and I have carefully chosen the word practice. It also means that
if you fail, you apologize immediately. Still, I’m not sure that I say this
enough to my students- it does really mean a great deal to me. One of the hardest parts of
being a good sport in a one on one sport is appreciating your opponent’s
efforts. It’s easy to be miserable, but it truly is important for you to say to
your opponent, congratulations on your performance, today you were the better
fencer. And the fact is, it’s true!
I
expect that you will try to try to win until the last touch. All you can do is try. And as easy as that sounds, it is almost
impossible. Almost all athletic contests are over before the end. Most times
one of the athletes has conceded by the end. It’s so hard- yet so
simple- try and win this touch, then after that try and win the next one.
I want
to finish by saying that often fencers and their parents ask me if I think that
they can make an Olympic team. This question is unaswerable, especially in a
sport that has so many paths to success. However, what is almost always easy to
say is "I believe that it will be a valuable experience for you to pursue
a goal of making the Olympic team". Because, doing so means having to
pursue mastering all of the goals that I just mentioned, and these can help you
in any pursuit that you choose. Also notice that this same process goes for
pursuing much less lofty goals. If you succeed at most or even some of these
goals, you will take something away from the sport that will be invaluable
throughout your life. Also, I, as the coach will be completely, totally, and
absolutely satisfied, even if you lose 5-0.
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